My mother died peacefully yesterday afternoon.
She was 92--born in 1915 in a hollow in Kentucky, she had a memory of the Spanish Influenza epidemic of 1918--her father brought the entire family through with vegetable soup. She remembered the introduction of cars to her small town in Kentucky. She rode the back of a plow horse to school with her older brother and little sister. She was born in a time where airplanes of were exotic, but traveled to Paris, London, Switzerland, Brazil, Egypt, the Caribbean and China. She had a brother and brother-in-law both serve in the Pacific theater in World War Two.
She had first showed signs of dementia when she was 77 but was still pretty healthy until she broke her hip this fall. On Friday, Hospice was brought in because her dementia had progressed to the point where she no longer spoke nor ate. This week Bob and I will be going to Kentucky for the service where she will be buried in a tiny family cemetery on top of a mountain in Swan Pond.
I have missed her for many years. I am glad that at the end she could be made comfortable and unafraid.
31 Comments:
I'm so sorry, Maureen. Condolences.
My best wishes to you and your family. May you be comforted.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Hi Maureen,
I'm sorry to hear this. Much love flying your way.
Ellen (D)
I'm so sorry for your loss, Maureen. As you say, though, comfortable and unafraid is heartening.
Remember to take time to take care of yourself. Thinking of you.
Very sorry to hear this, and condolences to your family.
At least the ending was peaceful.
--wjw
I am sorry for your loss. Comfortable and unafraid sounds like a better way to go. Small mercies are all one can hope for at times.
My sympathies, Maureen.
I can't think of anything to say except I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength in the next week and beyond.
Leslie
Our condolences, Maureen -- Meg and I are thinking about you and your family. If there's anything we can do, being in town and all, please let us know.
Dear Maureen,
My condolences on the loss of your mother. I'll be thinking of you and your family at this time.
Much love,
Maura
My condolences, Maureen.
My condolences as well.
--Trey
Oh, what sad news. Deepest sympathies, Maureen.
Maureen, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Maureen. Condolences to you and your family.
I'm so sorry, Maureen. Please take care.
Maureen -- Our condolences to you and your family.
Maureen, I'm so sorry. I'm glad she shared her memories with you back when she was able. They will be a treasure in the years to come.
K.D. Wentworth
Maureen, I'm so sorry. Wishing you well--
I'm sorry, Maureen. It's a mixed loss-blessing; she hadn't been fully herself for a long time, but that little bit that was still there is hard to lose. I'm thinking of you.
Such sad news Maureen. My best wishes and condolences to you all. I'll be around if you're interested in a cup of tea or two.
Anon
Hugs across the eways. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Paula Helm Murray (not iced in in KC...)
May she rest in peace. All comfort to you Maureen.
Stuart
Am just catching up now. Don't forget you're an excellent daughter. Please take a photo of Swan Pond. My mother has been gone 21 years, but I still reach out to call her sometimes. Love to you.
Maureen,
Just found out the email I sent earlier bounced back. I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Like we talked about before, you were (and still are) an amazing daughter to your mom. You took very good care of her throughout all the difficult years. I will always remember her as the vibrant, strong woman who didn't blink an eye at having half a dozen college students rain down on her home for a weekend (or two). Or your stories of the many travels you did together. Remember those times and smile. You know I just went through the loss of my dad myself recently so I know . . .
Take care,
Donna
Your mother sounds like she had an interesting life. Not least among her accomplishments was bringing up a very cool person for a daughter. Be well, and hugs.
Condolences, Maureen. I can't think what else to say. She sounds like an amazing lady, and I know a lot of her memories, imagination, and high ideals live on in you.
I'm so sorry, Maureen. I know that having a parent with dementia means you get to watch them die twice.
That last was me, experiencing some pre-dementia loss of Blogger skills.
Eileen Gunn
I haven't dropped by in some time. I'm so sorry, Maureen. A long and remarkable life, not that that makes the loss any easier.
D
Maureen,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. We are thinking special thoughts for you and your family.
Marjorie and Walt Farrell
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